If you are trying to figure out how to make the relationship between your husband and your children better, you have to think about the life your man had when he was growing up. At times, men will move beyond the upbringing that they had, but other times they mimic what they knew, and that will not always be what you think is best for your children. When it comes to men and relationships, you have to let them do as they wish, but you also have to watch out for problems so that you can stop them before they become permanent issues. This is not to say that men have problems with their children. Most men are great fathers, and those that are struggling are doing their best to make up for what they think they are lacking.